Skill

Shows Interest in Other Children

Infant or toddler notices, watches, and begins to connect with other children.

Ages 6–36 months

Why it matters

Noticing and reaching toward other children — touching a face, smiling, learning a friend's name — is the start of peer relationships. Early peer interest grows into the friendships and social belonging that support learning in groups.

Builds toward this milestone

  • shows interest in, interacts with, and develops personal relationships with other children. — Head Start ELOF

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What mastery looks like

  • Watches, touches, or makes sounds directed at another child.
  • Participates in simple back-and-forth interactions with a familiar peer.

How to observe it

  • Does the child notice and respond to other children nearby?
  • Does the child show recognition of, or preference for, particular playmates?

Accessibility

  • Seat children near peers and narrate what each child is doing to draw attention.
  • For children who find closeness overwhelming, start with parallel proximity, not contact.

Activities

Evidence