Activity

Familiar or New?

A toddler looks through a basket that mixes well-loved objects with one or two brand-new items, noticing and reacting to what is unfamiliar.

Ages 12–36 months

Supports this milestone

  • recognizes differences between familiar and unfamiliar people, objects, actions, or events. — Head Start ELOF

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Materials

  • A basket
  • 4 to 5 objects the child uses every day (their own cup, a favorite book)
  • 1 to 2 objects the child has never seen before
  • Optional photos of familiar family members and one unfamiliar face

Steps

  • Sit with the child and pull out objects one at a time.
  • Name each familiar object warmly, such as "Here is your cup. You know this one."
  • When the new object appears, pause and watch the child's reaction.
  • Wonder aloud together, such as "This one is new. What could it be?"
  • Let the child explore the new object as long as they like.

Variations

  • Use family photos and add one photo of a friendly but unfamiliar person.
  • Hide a new object in a familiar spot and see if the child notices the change.

Differentiation

  • For younger toddlers, use just one new object among two familiar ones.
  • For older toddlers, ask them to tell you which things are "yours" and which are new.

Accessibility

  • Offer objects with distinct textures or sounds so familiarity does not depend on sight alone.

Safety

  • Ensure all objects, especially new ones, are too large to swallow and have no sharp parts.

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